So, we just had "the talk " bc Mady was desperately searching for answers and had out the encyclopedia. She was seeing the body parts and we were discussing sperm and ovum. She said, "how do they come together, does the sperm flow out of his mouth so that when they share the special kiss they become pregnant. That's when I had to tell her how it happens.... She turned 30 shades of red and laughed hysterically. She said, omg I'm so embarrassed and covered her face w/ her hands and had tears of laughter streaming!! She stuck her head down in her t-shirt like a turtle head poking out of its shell and giggled tons! I loved every second of it. i laughed SO hard at her reaction.. She said, I cannot have children now. For added fun, I said, "so, what did dad and I do to create you." She said, "I will not say it. I refuse to say it." Mika walked in and interrupted and she said, "Mika leave-I just learned something very disturbing..." Lol, oh, man-she just said to me, "that explains A LOT, whenever those dogs were mating in the yard, now I get it!" Bahahaha! She just turned on the air conditioner and said "I am SO hot." Hahaha! She just added, all along I thought that was a two-headed dog!! Bahahaha! This is toooo good!
We sat back down, and discussed purity and virginity. We discussed the verses about God's plan for two becoming one and how absolutely beautiful it is. I shared that God created Eve for Adam and when he saw Eve and her naked body, his first words were "it IS GOOD" and then the two became one. I told her that god created our bodies to come together perfectly and He asks us to be fruitful and multiply. It's his plan and it is not dirty or shameful so long as you do it the way God asks. And, how it's one of the 1st pleasures mankind experiences. We talked about the pain that comes from losing it and how it is a gift for your husband. How very special it is to hold onto that gift until God's choice for you comes along. We prayed together about her purity and discussed that she is carrying a gift now, right now she has this gift that makes her pure and the world will try to take it.... And that No one who loves her will make her feel like she needs to give that away, and in the end-she'll have pride and be angelic to the world, for waiting.
Father God, thank you for today. Thank you for my healthy growing girls and the chance to share your desires for us. Let my words have planted seeds of wisdom and understanding and help me guide her to act in wisdom. Help her feel the presence of the Holy Spirit in such a way that she stays pure for her husband and let a man stay pure for her. Thank you, God that you hear my hearts cry-in Jesus name. Amen.
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